HAVE YOU CREATE YOUR DREAM LIFE?

Creating your dream life. That’s what we all desire to do to some extent or another. We all want to make our biggest dreams come true, have a body that we are comfortable in, and feel fulfilled in life. So why is it so hard for us to actually have those things that we want in life? Why does it seem impossible to stay on track and accomplish our goals?

Believe me I understand.

But I’m going to be honest with you, creating the life that you desire takes time and dedication.

Don’t let that get you down though. I never said it was impossible. In fact there are many things you can do to get that life and that health that you want much much faster. And it’s not as complicated as you think it might be.

If you focus on improving a few key areas of your life, everything else starts to fall in place. Because one of the easiest ways to manifest your goals and the life that you desire is by focusing on making yourself feel good.

What do I mean by that?

We when you feel good physically and mentally, you will have the energy and automatically will feel more pulled to work on your goals. And when you feel good you also put yourself in positive mindset which also helps you to manifest things easier.

So let’s get into the three things you can do to up-level quickly and start living your best life.

Fuel your body with high quality and nourishing foods:

I have to put this in here, because it is very important for creating a better quality life. What you eat directly impacts the health of your body, as well as your mindset and energy. If you eat food that isn’t truly nourishing for your body, chances are you won’t feel your best, and the relationship with your body may be impacted. You will also very likely have less energy, so this may reflect in the quality and quantity of work you are able to do on your own self, perhaps in your business, and overall anything you are working on improving within your life. So I encourage you to invest in yourself by choosing high quality food, organic if at all possible, and be sure incorporate an abundance of fruits a vegetables for maximum health.

Live in the flow state:

One part of living in the flow state is to follow your intuition. Listen to your gut with every decision you have to make. Your gut will pull you towards the things you are meant to be doing in life and helping you get closer to living as your highest self. The second part of living in the flow state is doing the things that feel good and are easiest. If you are a content creator, perhaps this means you choose to work on a blog post instead of your current project simply because you feel more inspired to do that instead. Or maybe it means that you choose to do some yoga instead of going for a run on a particular day, because the thought of going for a run makes you feel miserable at the moment.

Work on personal development:

This can look like reading books on personal growth. Topics such as money mindset, books on the Law of Attraction, spirituality, etc. You can also take up new hobbies to grow your skills, enroll in a new course, take a fitness class, start meditating, and practice gratitude daily. There are many more examples, but these are just a few things that you ca do to start growing as a person.

To sum it up, when you live in the flow state and nourish your body with the right foods, you put yourself in a position that makes you feel good. When you feel good, you are in a more positive mindset. When you are in a more positive mindset, you make working on your goals and manifesting your dream life much easier.

I know it might be a lot to take in, but just start where you are with what you already have access to. That much will be enough.

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I know that we all desire to be happy in life. We want to feel healthy, feel confident in our bodies, and have the financial abundance that we desire.

So what’s stopping you from living that dream life NOW?

We are now into the second week of March. What have you accomplished in the first two months of this year? Have you started working on your 2019 goals? Are you any closer to making your dreams your reality?

If you ready to turn your year around and start making some crazy action on your goals and desires in life, then some join me in the Life Abundance program.

This is my high vibe 12 week program where I will walk you through my system for creating a crazy abundant life.

Are you ready to start living you’re dream life?

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Learn to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you.

16 Simple Ways to Love Yourself Again

WRITTEN by MARC CHERNOFF // 43 COMMENTS

Learn to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you.

“Today I lost the respect of a few people I love, and the desire to kill myself, when I finally took your advice and told everyone the truth about who I really am and what I’ve decided to do with my life. In a nutshell, I’ve chosen to love and honor myself, instead of convincing others to do it for me every day.”

Those are lines right out of a live chat session I had this morning with a longtime reader and new course member of ours. Although this person asked to remain anonymous, they gave me permission to share this with you, and I’m so glad they did.

Because the greatest struggle in life is the struggle to accept, embrace and love ourselves, with all of our imperfections. To be 100% honest about who we are, how we feel and what we need. To stop discrediting ourselves for everything we aren’t, and start giving ourselves credit for everything we are. And to be aware that not everyone we love will agree with us every step of the way, and to be OK with it.

We have to learn to be our own best friends, because sometimes we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies. We love the idea of others loving us, and we forget to love ourselves.

What we must realize is that our greatest task is not about discovering self-love; it’s about breaking down the walls we have built against it. When we have the courage to push through these walls – to know and embrace ourselves, despite our humanness, our flaws, and our rejections – we also open the door to connecting in more caring, empathic and intimate ways with others who are truly worth loving.

Which is why it’s time to…

Start telling yourself what you love about yourself. – In your own life it’s important to know how spectacular you are. You really have to look in the mirror and be kind. Because what we see in the mirror is often what we see in the world. Our disappointment in others often reflects our disappointment in ourselves. Our acceptance of others often reflects our acceptance of ourselves. Our ability to see potential in others often reflects our ability to see potential in ourselves. Our patience with others often reflects our patience with ourselves. You get the idea – you’ve got to show yourself some love first and foremost.
Be one with what is. – Something that’s really difficult, but totally worth it, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the journey of becoming your true self. The most beautiful part of this journey is simply returning to the peaceful feeling of being. This peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be.
Focus less on winning the approval of others. – Remind yourself that you don’t have to do what everyone else is doing. And you don’t have to get permission to do it differently either. Your time on this planet is precious. As the saying goes, “What you do today is important, because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.” Don’t wait around for someone else to give you permission to live.
Distance yourself from those who bring you down. – Being in no relationship is better than being in a wrong one. Don’t worry too much about folks who don’t worry about you. Know your worth! When you give yourself to those who disrespect you, you lose. Your friends in life should motivate, inspire and respect you. Your circle should be well rounded and supportive. Keep it tight. Quality over quantity, always.
Forgive your past self. – When you confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with the light of your forgiveness, your willingness to wrestle with your demons in this way will cause your angels to sing. It’s just a matter of accepting that sometimes good people like you make bad choices. It doesn’t mean you’re bad; it means you’re human. Get bored with your past; it’s over. Forgive yourself for what you think you did or didn’t do, and focus on what you will do starting now. (Read The Miracle Morning.)
Start making the changes you know you need to make. – Just because something made you happy in the past doesn’t mean you have to keep it forever. If you want to see changes in your life today, you’ll have to do things that you’ve never done before. Different input = different output. Move away from the things that drain you and move toward the thoughts and activities that empower and fulfill you.
Embrace the mistakes you haven’t even made yet. – To be successful in the long run, you must fail sometimes. So don’t let the fear of making the wrong decision prevent you from making any decision at all.
Show gratitude for who you are and what you have right now. – No, you won’t always get what you want. And no, you won’t always be exactly where you want to be. But remember this: There are lots of people who will never have what you have right now. So use pain, frustration and inconvenience to motivate you rather than annoy you. You are in control of the way you look at life. (Angel and I discuss this in detail in the “Happiness” chapter of 1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently.)
Do something every day that makes you happy. – There’s a big difference between empty fatigue and gratifying exhaustion. Life is too short. Invest in the activities you deeply care about. A good life is about making a good decision every day to do something that moves you – caring for yourself by doing things you care about. It’s a matter of realizing that there’s nothing selfish about self-care. Because we can’t give what we don’t have. You have to experience life on your terms before you can be life-giving to others.
Give yourself a fair chance to explore new ideas and opportunities. – Don’t let not knowing how it’ll end keep you from beginning. When we act, uncertainty chases us out into the open where opportunity awaits.
Listen to your intuition and be honest with yourself about everything. – We cannot speak with integrity about a lifestyle we are not living. We don’t need more dazzling storytellers; we need more genuine ones. Listen to that inner voice. Confidence comes from knowing that what you’re doing is right, and that what you’re doing is right for YOU.
Believe in your abilities. – All things are possible! The key is to identify what you want, claim it as part of who you are, and believe that you are worthy to have it. (Read Awaken the Giant Within.)
Focus on writing your story, instead of reading, watching and hearing about everyone else’s. – And when you catch yourself comparing your life to someone else’s, remember that people often only show their highlight reel – especially online – not their reality.
Pay close attention to your life as you’re living it. – One of the greatest presents you can give yourself (and your loved ones), is to be present, every chance you get. Your life is not between the moments of your birth and death; your life is between now and your next breath. Distractions are in the palms of our hands these days, but we need to remember to look up more often. So much is lost when we don’t.
Loosen up and be a little less serious about it all. – All self-misery has its roots in self-pity, and all self-pity is rooted in taking life too seriously. If you take everything too seriously, especially yourself, you’ll wind up fearing every new step you take. Loosen up and laugh it off when you can – especially when things don’t go as planned. People with a good sense of humor have a better sense of life. You grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself and your circumstances.
Go out of your way to be loving and kind to others too. – Almost everything comes full circle. People who love themselves come across as very caring, generous and kind to others too; they express their self-confidence through humility, forgiveness and inclusiveness. So seek to understand others before you attempt to judge. And be thankful for rude, difficult people too – they serve as great reminders of how not to be.

Closing Thoughts

The bottom line is: People will come and go. Events will come and go. Day and night will come and go. But a true love for yourself will always remain with you, if you nurture it.

So put these things on your TO-DO list today, and tie them to the points above:

Spend time doing things that help you love yourself more.
Spend time thinking about things that help you love yourself more.
Spend time with people who help you love yourself more.

Repeat tomorrow.

Your turn…

Which of these points do you struggle with? How will you love yourself more today? Leave a comment below and share your thoughts with us.

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Yeah, You could be the greatest
Yeah, kau bisa jadi yang terhebat
You can be the best
Kau bisa jadi yang terbaik
You can be the King Kong banging on your chest
Kau bisa jadi King Kong yang menepuk-nepuk dadamu

You could beat the world
Kau bisa kalahkan dunia
You could beat the war
Kau bisa kalahkan musuh dalam perang
You could talk to God, go banging on his door
Kau bisa bicara pada Tuhan, menggedor-gedor pintu-Nya

You can throw your hands up
Kau bisa angkat tanganmu ke atas
You can be the clock
Kau bisa menjadi jam
You can move a mountain
Kau bisa pindahkan gunungYou can break rocks
Kau bisa memecah bebatuan
You can be a master
Kau bisa jadi seorang tuan
Don't wait for luck
Jangan tunggu keberuntungan
Dedicate yourself and you can find yourself
Abdikan dirimu dan kau bisa temukan dirimu

CHORUS
Standing in the hall of fame
Berdiri di hall of fame
And the world's gonna know your name
Dan dunia akan tahu namamu
Cause you burn with the brightest flame
Karena kau membakar dengan bara paling terang
And the world's gonna know your name
Dan dunia akan tahu namamu
And you'll be on the walls of the hall of fame
Dan engkau kan berada di dinding hall of fame

You could go the distance
Kau bisa tempuh jarak yang jauh
You could run the mile
Kau bisa lari bermil-mil
You could walk straight through hell with a smile
Kau bisa berjalan lewati neraka dengan tersenyum

You could be the hero
Kau bisa jadi pahlawan
You could get the gold
Kau bisa dapatkan medali emas
Breaking all the records that thought never could be broke
Pecahkan rekor yang dikira takkan bisa dipecahkan

Do it for your people
Lakukanlah untuk rakyatmu
Do it for your pride
Lakukanlah untuk harga dirimu
Never gonna know if you never even try
Kau takkan pernah tahu jika kau tak pernah mencoba

Do it for your country
Lakukanlah untuk negaramu
Do it for you name
Lakukanlah untuk namamu
Cause there's gonna be a day
Karena akan ada suatu hari

When you're
Saat kau

CHORUS

Be a champion, Be a champion, Be a champion, Be a champion
Jadilah juara, jadilah juara, jadilah juara, jadilah juara

On the walls of the hall of fame
Di dinding hall of fame

(2x)
Be students
Jadilah siswa
Be teachers
Jadilah guruBe politicians
Jadilah politisi
Be preachers
Jadilah da'i
Be believers
Jadilah penganut
Be leaders
Jadilah pemimpin
Be astronauts
Jadilah astronot
Be champions
Jadilah juara
Be true seekers
Jadilah pencari sejati

CHORUS

(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You could be the greatest
Kau bisa jadi yang terhebat
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)You can be the best
Kau bisa jadi yang terbaik
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You can be the king kong banging on your chest
Kau bisa jadi King Kong yang menepuk-nepuk dadamu

(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You could beat the world
Kau bisa kalahkan dunia
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You could beat the war
Kau bisa kalahkan musuh dalam perang
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You could talk to God, go banging on his door
Kau bisa bicara pada Tuhan, menggedor-gedor pintu-Nya

(You can be a champion)
Kau bisa jadi seorang juara
You can throw your hands up
Kau bisa angkat tanganmu ke atas
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You can be the clock
Kau bisa menjadi jam
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)You can move a mountain
Kau bisa pindahkan gunung
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You can break rocks
Kau bisa pecahkan bebatuan

(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
You can be a master
Kau bisa jadi seorang tuan
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
Don't wait for luck
Jangan tunggu keberuntungan
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)
Dedicate yourself and you can find yourself
Abdikan dirimu dan kau bisa temukan dirimu
(You can be a champion)
(Kau bisa jadi seorang juara)

Standing in the hall of fame
Berdiri di hall of fame

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